About Me

My name’s Fatlum aka itsFatlum. I’m an 18yo guy living in Germany with Albanian roots and I’m Muslim. Being Albanian is part of where I come from, but I’m not one of those people who makes their nationality their whole personality. I’m proud of where I come from, but there’s way more to me than just being Albanian.

I’m an ESTP but definitely more on the introverted side. I’m usually pretty quiet around people I don’t know or don’t feel comfortable with yet. Once I trust you and feel comfortable enough I can be loud, energetic, chaotic and just fully myself.

I’m a very honest and straightforward person and I usually just say what I think instead of pretending to be someone I’m not. I’m also really curious and get interested in things pretty easily. I’m self-diagnosed with ADHD, which is probably a big reason why I can get extremely focused on things I’m interested in and completely lose interest in things that don’t really catch my attention. I can get hyperfixated on topics, hobbies or even people and I’m very much an all or nothing type of person sometimes.

I also feel things pretty intensely and overthink a lot. When something or someone becomes important to me I can get really invested in it. I spend quite a lot of time trying to understand myself, my emotions, how my brain works and why I react to certain things the way I do. I’m also demiromantic and demisexual, so emotional connection is a big part of attraction for me. I can also care about friends really deeply without it being romantic.

I’m mostly into tech and gaming. I like computers, programming, Discord, building stuff, experimenting with tech and figuring out how things work. I’m especially into story-driven and indie games and I usually prefer games where I can get attached to the characters or the story.

I like living in the moment and trying new things, but I also think a lot about my future. Freedom, privacy and being able to make my own decisions are really important to me. At the same time I really value having people around me that I actually trust and can be myself around.

Overall I’d say I’m curious, honest, straightforward, loyal, pretty emotionally intense, easily fascinated and always trying to understand myself and the things around me better.